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Email dead man's switch, or something more careful?

A scheduled email or a small script can do a surprising amount. Sometimes it's all you need. Here's an honest look at where it works, and where it falls short.

When email is enough

A simple timer works well when…

  • The message is practical and low-stakes, like where a spare key is
  • You're the kind of person who never misses an email
  • A false send would be awkward rather than painful
  • Text alone says what you need to say
  • You're comfortable maintaining it yourself

When you need safeguards

You need more care when…

  • A message sent by mistake would frighten someone you love
  • You travel, get unwell, or sometimes go quiet for weeks
  • You want a person to confirm before anything is sent
  • You want to leave your voice, a video or documents
  • Different messages should arrive at different times

The DIY route

Scripts and scheduled sends: the hidden risks.

A cron job, a scheduled send in your email client or a small script can be a perfectly good switch, if you're technical. The risks are about what happens years later, when no one is looking after it.

  • It depends on things that expire

    Servers, API keys, card payments and email accounts all lapse. A switch that silently stops working fails exactly when it's needed.

  • A single point of failure

    Most scripts have one trigger and no human check, so a missed check-in during an illness or a trip sends everything.

  • Deliverability

    Emails from a personal script often land in spam. Recipients may never see them.

  • Security of the content

    Messages often sit in plain text on a server or in a drafts folder, readable by anyone with access.

Side by side

An honest comparison.

Scheduled email, a DIY script and Sealkept compared
FeatureScheduled emailDIY scriptSealkept
CostFreeFree to low (hosting)$5 a month; everything included
SetupMinutesHours, plus upkeepAbout ten minutes
TriggerA date you keep pushing backMissed check-inMissed check-ins
Reminders before releaseNoneIf you build themSeveral, by email and in the app
Human verificationNoIf you build itOptional: one or two verifiers
Soft alert and grace periodNoIf you build itYes, grace period of your choice
Voice, video, documentsAttachments onlyAttachments onlyYes, on every plan
Per-message timingManualIf you build itAfter grace, a month later, on a birthday, or on verification
StorageYour email providerWherever you host itEncrypted at rest with AES-256-GCM
Keeps working for yearsOnly if you keep postponing itOnly if you maintain itMaintained for you

The release, step by step

Nothing is sent on a single missed check-in.

Sealkept never sends on a single missed check-in. It reminds you several times, can ask a trusted verifier to confirm, sends recipients a soft alert, and waits a grace period you choose before anything is delivered.

  1. 01

    Reminders

    Miss a check-in and we remind you, several times, by email and in the app.

  2. 02

    Trusted verifier

    Optionally, one or two people you choose are asked to confirm before anything moves on.

  3. 03

    Soft alert

    Recipients get a gentle note that something may be wrong, with a way for you to say you're fine.

  4. 04

    Grace period

    We wait 48 hours, 7 days or 21 days, as you chose. One tap from you stops everything.

  5. 05

    Delivery

    Only then are your messages delivered, each by the rule you set for it.

FAQ

Frequently asked questions

A service or script that sends pre-written emails if you don't respond to a check-in in time. It's the simplest kind of digital dead man's switch.

You can, but scheduled sends work on a fixed date, so you'd need to keep pushing it back for years. Forget once and it sends. There's no check-in and no confirmation step.

It can be, if you maintain it. The usual problems are expired hosting or keys, emails landing in spam, a single trigger with no human check, and message text stored unencrypted.

Because a missed click isn't a confirmed death. Sealkept reminds you several times, can ask a trusted verifier, sends a soft alert and waits a grace period, and it can deliver voice notes, videos and documents too.

$5 a month, with every feature and safeguard included. There's no free plan, but you can cancel anytime, and anything you've already sealed is still delivered.

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